Stoya lives to service men. In her videos she worships the men she is with. She enjoys sex, sure, but it isn't for her benefit. She is owned by the industry she is in and the men she is with. I think you misunderstand what sexual freedom is. Aren't your male coworkers that ask you to sushi only exercising their own sexuality? Get the fuck over it. No one cares if girls are sexually free or not. Its women like you who create that ideology. Just do what you want. No one cares.
Such a very angry anon! I don’t know what videos you’ve seen Stoya in, but the ones I have seen, the men seem to worship her. And if she worships the man, then good for her. It means she enjoys the sex so much she wants the please the man. I know that for me the best part about sex is the pleasure in seeing my partner enjoying himself. And I do not think that Stoya is owned by the industry, simply read her tumblr and the things she talks about, she is not owned in any way. Also, a quote from Stoya herself in the book Confessions of the Hundred Hottest Porn Stars page 50, ” Here’s the thing that happens. You start traveling all the time for work, and when you’re not, you get restless. I hate sitting around doing nothing, so I work at a restaurant when I’m not… you meet boys. You think they’re cool, and they want you to suck their dicks. Sweet, cool. But I don’t know what happens during the dick-sucking process because they next thing you know, when it’s time to work and travel again, it’s ‘I miss you baby. Are you really gonna be gone for three weeks?’” And then she does on to talk about how as people we aren’t meant for monogamy. And how she does not have relationships and how she’s always wanted to DP. Anyways, the point is anon, that you don’t know Stoya, and well frankly, neither do I. But what I have read, it is safe to assume that she very much enjoys sex.
ALSO… On the note that I misunderstand what sexual freedom is… I don’t think I do. Sexual freedom to me is being able to sleep with people and not be looked at as a slut or whore. Being able to dress a little sexy without “asking for it”. Sexual freedom is about being able to be as conservative or as kinky as you want to be in the bedroom. Its about being confident in your sexuality. And the guys who ask me to sushi, sure they are exercising their own sexuality, but do they have to do it when I am trying to be professional? Or when I am clearly not interested… And the fact that you think that no one cares if girls are sexually free or not makes you a sexist, misogynistic asshole pig. And your just mad cause I get laid more than you. :)
I dont know why i put myself out there. Why I still give him my heart. To only have him chew it up and spit it back out at me. I just dont know why i am such an idiot. I dont understand… Why am I not enough?
I think that your post about porn is very touching and very true! I liked it a lot =) There isn't anything wrong with sexuality or being sexual. America in general makes way too big of deal out of it if you ask me. Thank you for posting it, it made me smile and made me feel a bit more comfortable as well =)
Reid:Fourteen is when we start to make our own musical choices. Our cognitive development evolves at that age and we start to form our own cultural identity.
Morgan:We stop listening to the music that our parents played and we start listening to the music that our friends listen to.
Reid:Our musical experiences imprint on us. Our hormonal surges as teenagers may make the choices seem more personal and passionate, and later on in life we might experiment with other musical selections, but no music ever impacts us as much as that we listen to at age 14.
<p>I started listening to Senses Fail at around 14....</p>
“Have you seen most of the plus-size sections out there? It’s horrifying. Whoever’s designing for plus-size doesn’t get it. The entire garment needs to be reconceived. You can’t just take a size 8 and make it larger. In my travels, I’ve been an advocate for larger women. I’ve been talking to designers, but only a half-dozen make an effort. Most say, ‘I don’t want a woman who’s a size 10 or 11 wearing my clothes.’ Well, shame on you! It’s not realistic. We need to address real women with real needs.”—
I just wanted to take a moment and say that I appreciate all of my followers. You guys are the best and mean a lot to me. So thank you for sticking through all my crazy obsessions, and posts about sloths, Emma Watson, body mods, music, and all the other crazy things I post. It means a great deal to me and I just wanted to let you know that. I love you guys <3
I am feeling ridiculously overwhelmed with school work! At least my philo final is done. I just need to write my Thomas Jefferson paper tonight and focus. But I am having so much fun on tumblr right now… I think I am annoying all my followers but I really don’t care! Muahahaha. At least my cat and I think we are hilarious! Hahaha. Oh lord. I need sleep. Ice cream time!!!